Advice from a Departing Child
A poem penned on the eve of a custody trial by Inga Rinne, a Panel
Lawyer with the Office of the Children's Lawyer.
American Humane Association
The American Humane Association is a leader in identifying and preventing
the causes of child abuse and neglect.
Avoiding the War
An excellent article from Divorce Mediation Services dealing
with "The
Adversarial Process", "Your Children are
Watching", and "Mediation".
BOOST -
Child Abuse Prevention & Intervention
The Toronto Child Abuse Centre provides lots of information on child abuse.
British
Columbia Child Protection Statute and Aboriginal People
The Child, Family and Community Service Act of British Columbia, which is
intended to protect children from abuse and neglect and ensure their safety and
well-being, recognizes the importance of an Aboriginal child's cultural
identity.
British Columbia Ministry of Children and
Family Development
The Ministry of Children and Family Development in British Columbia provides
programs and services to children and families.
Child
Abductions - International
A manual entitled "International Child Abductions: A Manual for
Parents" published by Canada's Department of Foreign Affairs.
Child Abuse
Information
on
child
abuse
from
the
Children's
Aid
Society
of
Toronto.
Child Abuse - Reporting
"Reporting Child Abuse and Neglect," by Ontario's Ministry of Children and Youth
Services, outlines your responsibility under Ontario's Child and Family Services
Act when you have reasonable grounds to suspect that a child is or may be in
need of protection.
Child Custody
Mediation
An article entitled "What is Child Custody Mediation?" by Lori Godin.
Child Find - Canada
Lots of information from Child Find Canada, which assists in searching for
missing children and provides education programs pertaining to children's
safety.
Child Protection - Court Cases - CAS
"What You Should Know About Child Protection Court Cases," published by
Ontario's Ministry of the Attorney General, provides information to parents and
others who are involved in a child protection court case.
Child Support and Mediation
An article by Norman Pickell showing how the use of mediation to resolve
child support issues can benefit children.
Child Welfare Mediation - Rees
In her article entitled "Mediation in Child Welfare," Jane Rees, a social worker with the Children's Aid Society of Toronto, Ontario describes her conversion to mediation as an alternative to going to family court, particularly when the issues involve supervised access, unsupervised access, abuse, natural parents, foster parents and crown
wardship. This article, which was first published in 1998 in Communicate, the newspaper of the Children's Aid Society of Toronto, appears here with the permission of the Toronto
CAS.
Child's Guide to Separation
- Ontario
A booklet published by the Ontario Government for
children.
Child's Guide to Separation and Divorce - Canada
"Because Life Goes On … Helping Children and Youth Live with Separation and
Divorce", published by the Canadian Government, reaches out to children, youth
and their families to help them through the process of separation and divorce.
Children and
Divorce/Separation
In his article entitled "Help Your Child Through Your Divorce,"
Dr. Gary Gosselin provides some helpful tips to parents who are going through a
separation or divorce.
Children and Family Break-up - CMHA
If you are going through a separation or a divorce and you have children,
"Children and Family Break-up" is a "must read"!
Children of Domestic Violence
"Children of Domestic Violence," by Domestic Violence Shelter and Services in Wilmington, North Carolina, shows the effects that domestic violence has on children.
Children -
Mediation - Pickell
"Mediation: What's in it for Children of Parents who are Separating," by Norman
Pickell, highlights the advantages for children whose parents are separating of
using mediation.
Children - Mediation - Scott
In "Mediation - Things to Consider," Michael Scott shows how mediation can be effective when there is a separation and children are involved.
Children of Separation/Divorce
Some helpful tips for children whose parents
are undergoing a
separation or divorce to help them deal with it.
Children,
Separation and Grief
"Children, Separation and Grief," by Colm Brannigan, lists the several stages of
grief when parents decide to separate.
Children's Advocate
A magazine dealing with issues affecting children and
families.
Children's
Aid
Society
What
is
a
Children's
Aid
Society?
-
information
from
the
Ontario
Association
of
Children's
Aid
Societies.
Children's Bill of Rights
When parents are not together - from the American
Academy of
Matrimonial Lawyers.
Children's Grief and Loss Issues
This web site of Linda Goldman is for adults who are dealing with children who
are experiencing either death-related tragedies or non-death related traumas
such as divorce, separation, bullying, abuse and violence.
Children's Lawyer
How children in Ontario under 18 can have their own lawyer.
Children's Reaction to
Separation and Divorce - Saposnek
"Children's Reaction to the News of Divorce: What They Need from You," by child
psychologist Dr. Donald Saposnek, provides tips for parents on how children of
different ages typically respond to hearing of their parents' divorce or
separation.
Co-Parenting - Scott
In his article entitled "Co-Parenting," Michael Scott describes how co-parenting allows a child to keep both parents after a separation or divorce.
Custody Fights
An article entitled "Getting a Divorce? Why you should
not just fight it
out" that shows why you should consider mediation
instead of court.
Divorce and Separation -
for Children and Teens
If your parents are splitting up, here is some information from the United
Kingdom to help you understand what is happening and the changes in your family;
there is separate information for 5 to 8 year olds, for 8 to 13 year olds and
for those 14 and older.
Divorce
and the Holidays
This article entitled "Divorce and the Holidays: Split Decisions or
Family Friendly Compromise ?" by Dr. Al Ravitz provides some tips on how
parents who are separated can be good role models for their children.
Divorce Ends Marriage But Not Parenting
"Divorce Ends a Marriage But Not the Difficulties of Parenting," by Wendy Gregson and Dr. Bruce
Derman, talks about the challenges that parents face after the separation and divorce.
Divorcesource.com
Divorcesource.com is a web site that discusses the alternatives to the
bitter separation and divorce, and talks about how to have a better separation
and divorce for the sake of the children.
Domestic Violence & Children
A Fact Sheet published by Action Alliance
for Children.
Effects of Divorce
An article by a psychologist entitled "Psychological
and Emotional
Aspects of Divorce", showing the effects of divorce
on adults and children.
Effects of Divorce on Children
In "The Effects of Divorce on Children," family therapist Susan Lieberman discusses the effects that a separation or a divorce can have on children and provides ideas for parents to help their children cope.
Father Involvement
"Introduction to the Male and Father Involvement Initiative," from the National Head Start Association - NHSA, talks about the need for fathers and other males in the lives of children and families.
For the Sake of the Children
Canadian Parliamentary Report on how separation
and divorce affect
children.
Foster Care
Information on foster care, foster children and foster parents from the Ontario Association of Children's Aid Societies.
Foster
Parents
Information
from
the
Children's
Aid
Society
of
Toronto
on
foster
parenting.
Getting Children Through
Separation and Divorce
This article entitled "Getting Your Children Through This"
provides tips to help you help your children get through your separation or
divorce.
Grandparents
Looking After Grandchildren - Johnson
"Grandma in Charge - When Grandparents Care for Kids," by C.J. Johnson, provides
tips on when and how grandparents can successfully care for their grandchildren.
Guardianship of
Children
For information on Guardianship of Children, please click here.
Help Children with Divorce
Article by a psychologist entitled "What
Parents Can Do to Help Children
with Divorce", which offers suggestions for what
parents can do to support their children's comfort and
adjustment to the separation and divorce.
Huron-Perth
Centre
The Huron-Perth Centre provides services to children, youth and their families
as a means of solving emotional and family problems. There is no cost for these
confidential services.
If Mom's Battered, Kids Suffer
An article on how domestic violence affects
young children.
Jill's Message
In this "Message from Jill" there is some advice for parents who
are going through a separation or divorce, written by 14 year old Jill.
Judge's Comments to Parents
Comments made by a Judge in a divorce case involving children.
Kids and
Divorce - Becker
An article entitled "Helping Kids Through Divorce" by Michael Becker.
Kids in the
Cross Fire
"Getting Kids Out of the Cross Fire," by Gary Direnfeld, gives some suggestions
for resolving parenting disputes quicker so that parents and children can get on
with their lives.
Kids' Guide to
Divorce
"A Kids' Guide to Separation and Divorce" provides information for children aged
5 to 12 about separation and divorce, courtesy of the Ministry of the Attorney
General for British Columbia.
Kids' Guide to
Separation
"A Kids' Guide to Separation and Divorce" provides information for children aged
5 to 12 about separation and divorce, courtesy of the Ministry of the Attorney
General for British Columbia.
Mediation - Benefits for Children
In his article entitled "In Family Law, How is Mediation Different from a Settlement Meeting?" Norman Pickell shows how children can benefit from mediation in family law cases (including separations, custody, access and divorce).
Mediating
Child Protection Cases
This article by Joan Wildgoose and June Maresca entitled "Mediating
Child Protection Cases" shows that the mediation process can be an
effective way to resolve child protection disputes.
Mediation
for Parents who Separate or Divorce
The mediation part of "A Kids' Guide to Separation and Divorce" provides
information for children aged 5 to 12 about mediation for parents who separate
or divorce, courtesy of the Ministry of the Attorney General for British
Columbia.
Mediation
More information on how mediation can be helpful when children are involved.
Merrymount
Children's Centre
Merrymount Children's Centre, based in London, Ontario, provides integrated and
comprehensive programming for families in crisis.
Missing and Abused Children
The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, located near
Washington, D.C., provides assistance to parents, children, law enforcement
officials, schools and the community in recovering missing children and raising
public awareness about ways to help prevent abduction, molestation and sexual
exploitation of children.
My Life as a Game Piece
Kids talk about their experiences with their parents'
divorce.
Our Missing Children
This site, which is sponsored in part by the Royal Canadian Mounted Police, ie.
RCMP, provides information to assist in locating children who are abducted, ie.
kidnapped, by a parent or a stranger.
Pain of
Post-Divorce Parenting
This article entitled "The Pain of Post-Divorce Parenting," by
Michele Bloomquist gives some tips for raising happy, stable children after the
separation.
Parent Guidelines
Guidelines to assist parents to help their children cope
with divorce and
separation.
Parental Alienation
- Direnfeld
"Parental Alienation: Discredited Syndrome Has Practical Relevance," by Gary
Direnfeld, points out what happens when a parent goes out of his or her way to
make things tough on the access parent.
Parenting After Divorce and Separation - Canada
Information for parents from Canada's Department of Justice on parenting after separation and divorce.
Parenting After Marriages End
An article that shows how mediation can help
shape a parenting plan.
Parenting After Separation: Handbook
"Parenting After Separation: A Handbook for Parents" focuses on the needs of children when parents separate, and how parents can help meet those needs.
Parents
and Children - UK
"Parents and Children" is a leaflet published by the Lord
Chancellor's Department of the United Kingdom which provides information and
guidance to parents who want to make it easier for their children to cope with
separation and divorce.
Parents of Divorcing or
Separating Children
This article entitled "Twenty Five Tips for Parents Whose Children are
Getting a Divorce" by Laura Johnson provides do's, don'ts and tips for
parents of divorcing or separating children.
Paternity Testing
"Paternity Testing" gives a brief overview of what is involved when determining
whether the presumed father is the biological father of a child.
Paternity Testing - Serotech
Serotech Laboratories Limited is a Canadian company which conducts paternity and
identity testing.
Preventing a Child Abduction
A list of ways to help prevent a child abduction.
Reducing Impact of Separation and Divorce on Children
"Divorce: Reducing the Impact on Children," by Sam Margulies, gives parents ideas on how they can reduce the impact of their separation and divorce on their children.
Separation and Divorce -
for Children and Teens
If your parents are splitting up, here is some information from the United
Kingdom to help you understand what is happening and the changes in your family;
there is separate information for 5 to 8 year olds, for 8 to 13 year olds and
for those 14 and older.
Single Parent - Making Lemonade
Making Lemonade, a site for single parents created by Jody Seidler, helps single parents discover the art of single parenting by offering tools, insights and information about being a single parent.
Stepping Back from Anger
An excellent article by the American Academy of
Matrimonial Lawyers
on Protecting Your Children During Divorce.
Stress in Children
- Hack
This article entitled "Stress in Children: What It Is, How Parents Can
Help" by Dr. Sabine Hack provides tips to parents to help them recognize
stress in their children and to help their children deal with it.
Substance
Abuse
Child
welfare
substance
abuse
guidelines
from
the
Children's
Aid
Society
of
Toronto.
Teen Guide to
Parental Separation and Divorce
"A Teen Guide to Parental Separation and Divorce" provides information for
preteens and teens about separation and divorce, courtesy of the Ministry of the
Attorney General for British Columbia.
Telling Your
Children - Saposnek
In his article entitled "What Should We Tell the Children?" psychologist Dr.
Donald Saposnek provides tips on how and when to tell your children about your
separation and divorce.
Ten Tips for Divorce Lawyers
An excellent list by Mike McCurley to help
divorce lawyers defuse their
clients' anger at the beginning of the divorce process.
Ten Tips for Divorcing Parents
An excellent list by Mike McCurley to help
parents lessen the impact on
the children of the marriage break-up.
Tips for Parents
Helpful tips for parents going through a separation or divorce from Bill
Ferguson, a former divorce attorney who has been featured on Oprah.
Ways to Love
a Child
Tips for all who are involved with children.
When a Child Goes
Missing
Information from Child Find Canada about missing children.
When
Parents Hate Each Other
"What's a Kid to do when Parents Hate Each Other?" by Gary Direnfeld, gives some
suggestions of what to do when separated parents hate each other.
Wife Abuse - Impact on Children
Information from the Family Violence Branch
of Health Canada.
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